You are MAGIC!

June 4th, 2010, posted in by rmilana, thought of the day

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Think about it; if all the people around the world always think of these following:
1. I’m not good enough
2. I’m not strong enough
3. I’m not worth for anyone or anything
4. I don’t want to live anymore
5. Nobody wants me
etc…

So,what would you feels if you’re surrounded by that kind of people who always think that they ‘re not good enough or always keeps negativity on their mind?

Tired?

Exactly!.

School is stressful, Work is stressful , Life is stressful, just keep that in mind for the rest of your life, and let me know if that doesn’t effect your whole life into such tiring life that could lead to anxiety.

Enough of that, and let’s find that you are actually CAN discover positive energy from the list of simple magic you can do in your everyday life from the way you think about your life:

1. When you’re awake, think that you’re blessed to be alive and having a new day, it’s another chance to do or fix something.

2. You live with family? Noise and everything? Think of those who lives alone and homeless

3. You live alone and single? Think of how you will spend your day ahead meeting old friends and new friends, Snap your finger and think of in a zillion of people out there, someone will finally meet your one self.

4. You have to go to school, college, work? Think of how lucky you are that you can have the opportunity to be educated and to be able to do something for a company and earn from it. Think of how many people out there who still looking for a job. You’re lucky!

5. Having breakfast, lunch, snack and dinner? Think of how many people out there who can only afford 1 meal for a whole day or maybe no food at all.

6. When you feel like day is bad and you’re not in a good mood. I know you don’t have the power to control what will happen to you, but hey! You Have the POWER to choose a good mood over a bad mood, and take a bad day as a lesson and just get over with.

7. Instead of thinking of that you’re not good enough, why not thinking about yourself in a positive way, you are meant to be in this life, you can make a different, you can create your life, you can have your dreams, and keep those in mind, you will have the power to do anything, if something doesn’t turn out right, why not take a lesson from it and be proud that you can still be happy.

8. Try to give your sincere smile to a stranger, it might be the only smile they received from their whole tiring days they’ve been through, and tell me that it doesn’t feels good when they smile back at you with their surprised or touched look from their eyes. Even if you don’t get a smile back, think that at least you have started to spread some happiness around and look at the sky, and believe that someone, somewhere is smiling back at you. :)

From those you can see that, think positive, feel blessed and be thankful is the key to discover your own magic in life.
Stop looking for a magic, realize that you are magic and you can be, if you think you can be one, you can.

If anyone can be grumpy, judgmental and stressful, why not make a different and spread your positive energy around, and that’s the magic of your life.

So, snap your finger and show the world that you are MAGIC!

Thank you for reading and do share your point of view on the comment box below.

You are what you think you are, and what you are is MAGIC.~rmilana

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The A to Z of Genuine Happiness

June 2nd, 2010, posted in by rmilana, thought of the day

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My simple version A to Z of Genuine Happiness

Appreciate Life

Be thankful for everything, and everyone in your life

Create something exciting, Count your blessing

Dance to your favorite song

Exercise daily, Eat fresh/healthy foods

Face your fears, feel your emotion

Go outside, observe nature, Give

Help others, Hugs often, Hold your family close

Ignite your passion

Jump through your comfort zone

Kiss passionately, Keep looking forward

Laugh, Love, Listen

Meet old and new friends

Never ever give up

Own a plant, Own a pet, Observe beauty

Pray, Let go fears and let God

Quit a bad habits

Relax, Respect yourself and others

Smile, Sleep, Simplify

Talk wisely

Unleash your strength

Visualize your dreams through art

Walk, Write, Watch the sunset

Xerox your smiling face

Yell less, Yield your thoughts

Zap negativity

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The Dash by Linda Ellis

May 22nd, 2010, posted in by rmilana

The Reason

May 19th, 2010, posted in by rmilana, thought of the day

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A friend of mine asking me what happened, when i just shout a “woohoo” and i said “I’m happy” then he replied “why?”

At that point my brain working so fast to give me a question “yes,why are you happy?” what is the reason of this kind of happy feelings that you have right now? well, frankly, i don’t know why,but i feel really happy inside, so i replied to my friend “do every happiness needs reason?”.

So,he just kind of looking for an answer inside his mind,because any friend of mine will know that they have to think my question further before spilling out any answers. None

No answer,and he confess that my question made him think more, and so he ask how can he be just happy like me, even when there’s no reason to be happy at all.

Here’s what i said :

Happiness is a state of mind, happiness is a choice, happiness is some feelings that we feels so joyous inside that made it shine through to a smile or a body language.True that.

Sometimes, we feel that we’re not happy, because lots of problems that we have to face, financial, health, family, education, etc..etc.
In this world, in this life, everyone have problems, not the same, but i doubt that someone is problem free, because as long as we live,there’s always a problem that we have to face or deal with.

So, if we always have problems, when do we have a chance to be happy?

Exactly.

Happiness is a choice, if i choose to be happy, why not?
I still have problems, but i choose to be happy, i refuse to make a drama out of my problems.
This,when some people really like to show that they have problems, and everything they do kind of shouting “hey look! i have problems, feel sorry for me”

As if for me, i tend to look at my problems and tell myself my GOD is bigger than my problems.

At first is not easy, to set the mind to think like the way i did.
I have problems too, small or big, i don’t have to mention them here (i don’t like people to feel sorry for me)
So, what i’m saying is, i may have not been in everybody shoes,but hey, i have problems too, and its really a frustrated days or years also for me, till i give it all to God and said “whatever the problem is,i believe I’m not alone,cause YOU are with me”

In every situation,in every problems,i tend to think at the worst consequences and learn to accept the worst, when i can do that, i have nothing to worry about,and let God.

I have no secret on how to be happy, but if you can look at life as i look my life, i believe you can be happy too.

I Look at life as its a big school where we can learn about everything from everybody, there will be bad things,there will also be a good things, despite all, see everything as a bless.

I know, people are different, not everybody can handle certain situation or certain problems, i wont blame them for that.
But we’re people suppose to learn from everything and everybody.

So,if you want to be happy, BE. no reason needed. :)

Thank you for reading.

Don’t put your happiness on things or people, put it in your heart.~rmilana


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black or white

May 18th, 2010, posted in by Ruchir

I laugh just like you, I cry and feel pain.
When you touch my skin, we feel just the same.
But you were born black and I was born white,
Our prejudice formed because of our sight.
But if you were blind and I couldn’t see,
Just think of how nice our friendship could be!